Years
Alan Ewing
Is this you and me
Caught in tears
After so much laughter
the storm it came
whose to blame
for the hereafter
I think I'll laugh
Oh so naff
Afraid of tears
Let's pick up
Smile from above
And laugh again
©dewyswriter2021
Years
Alan Ewing
Is this you and me
Caught in tears
After so much laughter
the storm it came
whose to blame
for the hereafter
I think I'll laugh
Oh so naff
Afraid of tears
Let's pick up
Smile from above
And laugh again
©dewyswriter2021
The Loves of Mr Henson
a lyric by Alan Ewing
Mister Henson loves his garden
He loves to dig up the weeds
He relishes turning up the dandelions
To take his mind off his weekly deeds
Mister Henson loves his car
He takes his family for rides
He takes them to the countryside
It occupies his mind
Mr Henson, Mr Henson, The Loves of Mr Henson
Mister Henson loves the sea
It gives a calming effect
It helps him to forget about the work
In a heap upon his desk
On Monday morning he rises early
And reflects on his weekend bliss
His thoughts are so tranquil
As he heads to his office
Mr Henson, Mr Henson, The Loves of Mr Henson
He watches the sunrise in the sky, after he has left his car
He thinks back to the preceding evening, with the beauty of the evening stars
HENSON IS A DEFENCE MINISTER: HE PLANS NUCLEAR ATTACKS
HE LOVES HIS CAR. HIS GARDEN, THE SKY
ITS LOVE OF THE WORLD HE LACKS
Mister Henson!
©dewyswriter2021
All In Life's stride
a lyric by Alan Ewing
We all must find a way, to take life as it comes each day
Troubles they come, troubles they go, pick oneself up when things are low
Truer words can be never be spoken, like those which are honestly woken
A glem of honesty in the heart is a good way for us to start
All In Life's Stride
It's all down to you
All in life's stride
The next day is new
The experience you need
Is what you've been through
Discover humour as a key, because only this will make you see
That the world can be a funny place, nothing like the smile on a face
There'll always be people who'll put you down, always making you frown
Though take it lightly, and pass it by, believe in self and reach for the sky
All In Life's Stride
It's all down to you
The feelings you try to hide
Reveal themselves as truth
All In Life's stride
The next day is new
The experience you need
Is what you've been through
[Repeat previous two choruses]
©dewyswriter2021
A Wedding In Reading
a lyric by Alan Ewing
The groom was late by half an hour
Not realising that drink contained such power
The night before had been his stag night
His best man had ended up in a fight
After a bowl of cornflakes with scrambled eggs
He could hardly stand upon his legs
He gulped down his coffee and rushed out the door
And promptly fell face down upon the floor
A Wedding in Reading
A great happy day
New sheets and bedding
And laughs on the way
The bride she was a lovely sight
You 'd never have believed she's been up all night
She just couldn't sleep and watched the clock
Counting the seconds till her wedlock
Little sister was with her by breakfast time
With mother on the gin and father on the wine
They'd spent all that they possessed in the world
To make this day special for their little girl
A Wedding in Reading
A toot and a pip
To the bedroom it's heading
For a bit of a kip
Do you hereby undertake to spend all your days
Watching soap operas on the telly in a drunken haze
You have new days in the nappies, recoil from the smell of the crappies
Though it sure beats being alone in a flat, even if you feel like a doormat
A Wedding in Reading
A toot and a pip
To the bedroom it's heading
For a bit of a kip
A Wedding in Reading
A great happy day
New sheets and bedding
And laughs on the way
©dewyswriter2021
Sonnet 116:
Let me not to the marriage of true mind, by William Shakespeare
A blog exposition by Alan Ewing
Firstly, Sonnet 116 itself, a slow absorbtion of the words, followed by a second reading, then read my paragraphs below, then returning to the Sonnet, as the rhythm of the language flows as you get used to it:
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me prov'd,
I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.
Outside of the Bible then Shakespeare is the ultimate writer about the sheer nature of love. In Shakespear this is romantic love, whereas The New Testament deals primiarily with general love. Sonnet 116 is about the stability of true love. A marriage indeed. One in which the lovers can face every trial that life may bring, every test that fate might throw into their path. Love does not change in the face of such change, else it is not true love. Love is like a fixed star that is immovable.
Time cannot affect love if it is true. For it grows within time. Shakespeare is telling us that fickle fancies will also not interfere with the course of true love. When it is entwined then it is rooted in such a way as to be the foundation stone of life itself. Companionship, friendship and loyalty are enshrined within it, through good times and bad. Love can conquer every hardship, even when all seems lost, and is the most powerful force that we ever encounter in our lives, when it is true. If not, says Shakespeare, then he, The Bard, was never a writer.
©dewyswriter exluding Sonnet 116
Excerpt here from Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen, with Kate Winslet as Marianne reciting part of Sonnet 116
35 But someone will ask, “How are the dead raised? With what kind of body will they come?” 36 How foolish! What you sow does not come to life unless it dies. 37 When you sow, you do not plant the body that will be, but just a seed, perhaps of wheat or of something else. 38 But God gives it a body as he has determined, and to each kind of seed he gives its own body. 39 Not all flesh is the same: People have one kind of flesh, animals have another, birds another and fish another. 40 There are also heavenly bodies and there are earthly bodies; but the splendor of the heavenly bodies is one kind, and the splendor of the earthly bodies is another. 41 The sun has one kind of splendor, the moon another and the stars another; and star differs from star in splendor.
42 So will it be with the resurrection of the dead. The body that is sown is perishable, it is raised imperishable; 43 it is sown in dishonor, it is raised in glory; it is sown in weakness, it is raised in power; 44 it is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body.
If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body. 45 So it is written: “The first man Adam became a living being”[a]; the last Adam, a life-giving spirit. 46 The spiritual did not come first, but the natural, and after that the spiritual. 47 The first man was of the dust of the earth; the second man is of heaven. 48 As was the earthly man, so are those who are of the earth; and as is the heavenly man, so also are those who are of heaven. 49 And just as we have borne the image of the earthly man, so shall we[b] bear the image of the heavenly man.
The Ultimate Betrayal
a lyric by Alan Ewing
Trust was put in him,
but he betrayed without a care;
he committed the ultimate sin.
By giving over one so fair.
Thirty pieces of silver in hand,
he received his pay.
The world was just a grain of sand
In the universe on that fateful day.
Oh! Judas, you fool, you fool!
For playing satan's game.
Couldn't you see that you were just a tool?
For the assault upon The Holiest Name.
Oh! Modern churches unify,
In His Holy Name.
Sectarian interests multiply:
you have only yourselves to blame.
For is this not also betrayal?
To segregate His words.
Substituting conflict and dogma,
for the true message being heard ...
©dewyswriter2021
image The Last Supper by Carl Heinrich Bloch 1876
The condition should not be confused with bi-polar, as that has periods of low despairing moods alternating with manic episodes. Rather Emotional Dysregulation has its motions through anxiety related disorder. It also has roots in psychological and emotional trauma that may have taken place throughout life and these may have caused the condition to grow. The nature of close relationships in life will have a huge impact. Damage can be severely inflicted by abusive or malicious intent from others.
Alan Ewing, MSc, BA(Hons), Cert HE
©dewyswriter2021
The latest scientific thinking is that time travel to the past is not possible. This being because it is still happening. The evidence of this lies with the expanding universe and how we can look back in time to the early stages of the universe with telescopes. Same as in how light from stars emanated at an earlier period of time and yet we are seeing it in the present. We cannot go back to what is still happening
The present is a product of the past. It only exists maybe for a fraction nano-second as time keeps moving. So to be in the present may well be a misconception. The present tense becomes the past tense within the flicker of an eye-lash. So therefore our concept of the present moment is always out of date. And of course, as explained, we cannot go back to the moment that has passed.
The future then. Well, once again we cannot go into it. We can only predict what with the evidence that lies before us. Scientific thought says that all stars die and that eventually we will be left with black holes. All ends with The Creator, my own personal belief system. Again, on the question of the universe collapsing in upon itself, then The Book of Revelation says that everything will return to God, including Christ. Our choice is to believe that all of this is meaningless, or else something is behind it.
copyright dewyswriter2021
SOMEBODY
a lyric by Alan Ewing
Chorus
And if somebody
Brought love back to you
And that somebody
Always would be true
And can somebody
Really come through
Not like somebody
Who leaves you cold and blue
Verse 1
There was a time I lived in need
When it seemed to me
I needed a hand
From someone who believed
Repeat Chorus
Verse 2
Then came a place
When it seemed to me
That I had a gift
To go out there and set others free
Repeat Chorus
BOOK OF GAGS
by Alan Ewing
"I always wanted to be a gag writer, because life is such a joke."
Relationship Gags
"Well, that was epic," remarked Edna as she rolled on to the other side of the bed, "A bit like climbing Everest and falling off at the first cliff."
"How was it for you?" Asked Jimmy. Jill rolled over to the other side of the bed and replied "Those Jam Tarts were amazing earlier"
Billy ended up in hospital. Jane went to visit him: "All you ever wanted, you bastard, to lie around in bed all day and get women in uniforms fussing over you."
"Last time I saw something like that," remarked Mabel, "It was the milkman trying to sell me a half-pint."
"I want cool colours on the walls... curves in the kitchen... tv without football" said John. Julie replied: "And who the hell do you think is wearing the knickers in this house!"
It was all so hot. Water running off the walls. It had never been like this before in 30 years of marriage, within the bedroom. "Oh! Fecking Hell", screamed Brenda, "You left on the hot tap again!"
Janie threw the handcuffs through the air at Jamie. "Use them on her!" The handcuffs flew out of the window and landed on the head of a Police Officer.
"This feels like a funeral" remarked Billy, as Sammy revealed her black underwear, and retorted: "Yeah, the funeral is in your pants."
"You're such a prude Ronoldo' shouted Bertie. "How so?" Demanded Ronoldo. Bertie exclaimed: "I am not even allowed to have a topless picture of Burt Reynolds on my bedroom wall!"
"Don't
you dare call me a tart!" Screamed Jeremy. Jonty was not in the
mood to compromise: "I saw you down in the factory making
them!"
“I thought that you said that bedtime would be interesting!" Moaned Christina. "Well, huh!" Replied Julianna, "No way am I dressing up as a man again!"
"So you're my hurricane in bed." Amanda said. "Guess, Roy, that explains the wind."
"What's that in your pocket?" Asked Mrs Wifie-Pops, as Mr Hubby rolled in drunk. "I got it for you for a bargain down at the pub," he slurred. He landed on the pavement with a thud, as the bra spun out of his pocket...
Oh yes, yes, she cried out in bed, “this is the best it has ever been”, as she looked over Rory’s shoulder at her favourite tv programme.
"We
need some time apart." said Julie. Billy was quick to reply:
"Yeah, like in another universe!"
"Get
your hands off my Wotsits!" Protested Mable. Jimmy was
non-plussed: "I'll get my own; they are on offer in Asda
...three multi-packs for three pounds."... Love is often silly!
Jilly was in the mood: "Ah put on my best knickers and suspenders for you darling." Rudolf was not in the mood: "I'm on my virgin fantasy trip." He responded, heading for the spare room as a bottle hit the door behind him.
"Did you get it up?" Asked Julia. Raymond was gobsmacked. "Did you get your profile photo up online" She continued. Raymond took a deep breath.
“Hey!
I tried to put romance back into our Marriage," said Mrs
Wifie-Pops. Hubby replied: "Yeah, and you set the bedroom
curtains on fire with that candle!"
"Fancy a date?" Asked Raymond. Julie replied; "I had enough of them at Christmas with Dad's box of dates."
"I fancy a Chinese tonight' said Ronald. "You unfaithful sod" replied Julie.
"I bought you a new car, honey. It's a Bentley!" Melanie pronounced.. "Wow! Where is it?" Carl answered. "On the mantle piece," continued Mel. "I know how much you adored Matchbox cars when you were a kid."
"I am the boss'" said Wifiepops. "Yeah, and I am the TUC" replied Hubby.
"I finally threw all of your stuff away!" Exclaimed Edna. "Yer wha'" Replied Rupert. "Even me false teeth!"
"I wanted to be dead!! Shouted Norbert. "Not my fault that you got resurrected!" Screamed Jill.
"Oh for goodness sake, Ronald", said Mabel. "Put the towel back on; I already have pickled onions for supper in bed."
"I want to turn you on" suggested Bormount. "I'm hungry, so you can turn the oven on" replied Eggreth.
“Ah!
You can't live without me!" Ranted Ray. "Yes, I can, I have
a life insurance policy on you!" Replied Julie.
"It's the end of the world" shrieked Lucille. Bert replied: "Calm down love, it's just burnt toast."
"I am a Tory" she said as she flashed her suspenders. Reggie grew to know why they permeate left-wing views
"Would you share your hot water bottle with me?" Asked Eramont. "Not with your spiffing cold feet!" Replied Thersaronna.
I feel so cool, I could live in a fridge." Said Ralph. "Yeah", said Mabel, "Last time you were hot fridges weren't invented."
GAG: "Oi! Ethel, a bikini-clad Californian gerl just asked me up to her room!" Ethel replied: "That's called a mirage"
Miscellaneous Gags
"I
always wanted to be a gag writer," moaned Herbert. "Then
got told that nobody would take me seriously."
"Well," began the kitchen sink to the cold tap, "You're going to tap off tonight with that hot one!"
"I got so full of myself, that the mirror cracked up and walked out"
"Oh!" Groaned the washing machine. "Why must I spend my life putting up with this pseudo-comedy." The kitchen sink responded: "Shut up you saucy git! You're always washing other people's underwear!" The fridge commented: "Tut, you lot are so uncool." the washing machine replied.
“I have to stop writing gags ... the ink and paper are costing too much!”
"Whooooo", said The Bishop to the actress' "You can cut that out! And so she continued cutting the newspaper links on his status …
"I love the way that you play your instrument, Rory", remarked Julia. "Shame that it goes flat on performance"
"Cheer
up Rory, it may never happen!" Remarked Ralph drily. Rory
continued to look at the sky and the nuclear cruise missile that was
heading their way.
If a picture paints a thousand words... D'oh! Then how can't I damn read!
"With a PhD," began Ralph, "I could have been an extremely qualified Road Sweeper, if it hadn't been for the fact that I never knew how to handle a brush."
I've been in here all of my life," said Charlie The Lag, in prison. "How's that then? Asked Reg The Snitch. Charlie answered: "My Mother was a pregnant bank robber, and I was born in here."
Feeling the heat? Go and sit in the fridge then. That's how people stay in the kitchen!
Lipstick
on your collar? Who's been kissing Ben Sherman then?
Alfie
The OAP was a legs man; nowadays he fancies zimmer frames
Don't
fool with me, unless you want a fool on your hands
I'm
roasting a bird today, doing it slowly over the evening ...cut it out
rock n' roll chicks ...I'm cooking chicken
How
many blondes does it take to change a lightbulb? - Far too many!
And
God put woman upon the earth to make life funnier
I
overthink: when making a cup of tea I get so involved in where the
tea was picked from that I forget to put the kettle on
I thought that I had lost the love of my life: turned out that the TV Remote Control had fallen down the side of the sofa
I never did throw the furniture out; just her stuff over the balcony
A
gag a day keeps the therapist away
My gags get on people's
nerves: so get some pills for their nerves then
They offered me a harem; I said that I could not cope with being told what to do by so many women
Why
do I always want to pee in the middle of something great: thank you
pause TV!
I'm not available for comment right now, as I
can't cope with my own status updates
"Don't worry if I get certified," said Ralph. "Just means that I am legally able to function."
"This
place stinks!" Said Hog. "Well, we are pigs and it is a
Pigsty" replied Mrs Hog.
Not bunkin' up wid
you" bawled Harry. Wait till we take a crap together,"
replied Randy
My sense of humour prevents
me from taking myself seriously
Did you hear about The Vicar who woke up too early? She put on her mini-skirt when half asleep and the congregation trebled.
I got out of jail
free ... I set the monopoly board on fire!
It
was never Cluedo to me ... I just killed all of the other players!
I get up with "The Farming Programme" on BBC Radio 4 each day... then people wonder why I say "Moo" all day!
I don't talk much about my days as a businessman, within the Fashion Industry ... because I'm still wearing the same clothes from 5 years ago ... D'oh!
"And so!" I began. "You've turned up again!" Of course, I was talking to a potato.
"Those curtains look good." ... She stormed off having never been so insulted about her dress.
If your Facebook adverts are full of Funeral Homes then you obviously have a Deathwish!
I always wanted to be insane. Little did I know that I was born that way!
The single bed can go. The double stays. I want to live in hope!
I just talk to myself because I like the company that I keep
"Have my name down for a couple of parts." Said the ageing actor. "A new heart and kidney!"
"My blood pressure is good" exclaimed Ralph. "That's because you are single", responded John.
"What a load of humbug" said the Strawberry Sherbet to the Mint.
It's a dinner date then. A cup of tea and a sausage roll in Sayers
I wanted to be a eunuch, though didn't have the balls to do it
Friends will be friends. That does not involve kissing with tongues
A woman's place is in the home; just so long as it is at least 25 miles away from mine!
If my sisters were alive I'd have them sectioned. Before they sectioned me
"Superstar" - Oh, you can cook dinner then!
Can God only count up to ten? I mean, think of the 20,000 commandments! ...Like "Don't sit on my chair", for one ...
I'd do stand-up though I can't even sit down after two pints...
I always wanted to be an empath and then I saw the mirror!
I've become such a recluse. I walked around my home town on street view last night!
And Love is an apple that Eve tempted me with ... "Sorry Love, I prefer Pears in Prune Juice: good for constipation"
I always wanted to be a virtual stand-up comedian... like when my computer crashed. Standing joke!
I fell in love with a virtual gerl. When the hour arrived, her software disconnected.
I decided to go on Twitter. I got trapped in Tweets and felt like a bird in a cage.
I got to 5,000 friends on Facebook. It finally dawned on me that my whole life had been a waste of time.
I love you to bits; don't go to pieces on me
"An' wha' maay dis be?" She asked. "Congealed Pig's Blood in Batter, me lov, Black Pudding!" She replied "Ooooh! Ahh am a carnivore; marght eat you laater!" Ahh was stunned, an' 'id under parrk bench ahh did! - Tws den' ahh 'new dat Yorkshire laydees pac' aaar lotta luv
A writer always puts off till tomorrow what can be done today
"Nobody ever listens to me: they just want to see me to probe their lobes with my light" Said The Ear Specialist.
I said "Goodnight dear" She replied: "You do realise that it is 6am in the morning".
The way to a man's heart is through his humour ... I mean, who would want to go through my stomach for a pound of tripe!
Dad
Gags
"Why are we buying bottled water Mum?" Asked Janie. Reply came: "Dad decided to do the re-plumbing himself!"
"Er Dad." said Billy, "you can stop dancing now ...the record finished half an hour ago."
An earthquake? I'm hearing mad voices!" Said Mum. "Don't worry its just Dad with his bedroom solo band." Replied Julie
Mum! "Dad is racing around in his underpants in the garden again!" Mum replies: "He had three beers my darling!"
"Why is the wallpaper hanging off the wall Mum" Mum replies: "Because your Dad forgot to use enough wallpaper paste!"
"Mum, why is Dad almost drowning?" "Because he always thinks that he can build a pond my dear." She replied.
Roof Falls in. "What was that?" Screams Mum. Joanna replies: "Just Dad trying to convert the loft again!"
"De, da, de", I'm so cool today", said Dad, as the kiddies laughed at his underpants hanging out of his track suit bottoms.
"Where has the fly spray gone?" Asked Mum. Jimmy perked up, "I did see Dad spraying something under his arms earlier.
"Mum, I cannot get on my X-Box. Said Johnny. "Is it broken hun?" Replied Mum. "No, Dad just went out and bought FIFA 2020!"
Football Gags
"Wear blue for me tonight darling ... I so want to f*ck it." "Really dear," darling replied. "Your goal-kick was hardly the best last time!"
"Honey!" Asked Mrs Wifie Pops. "England are playing tonight in the football. Would you like me to set up the TV?" Mr Hubby shrugged, and replied: "Nah! It's my turn to do the ironing. I fancy some entertainment."
"We're going to win The World Cup!" Said Bert The English Mad-dog in the heat.. Doris sighed: "Who have you played, love?" Bert paused: "Er, Tunisia and Panama ..." Doris had seen this before: "Anybody else in it?" Bert returned to watching his soap operas ...
55 years of hurt for England ...at least we can retire in 12 years time.
"We've done it! We've won it!" Screamed Eddie. "England have won The World Cup!" Edna was changing the sheets and doing the washing: "Gawd! How deluded these men get over wins over the lesser nations." The knock-out stages and the tougher teams were yet to come ... Do'h!
I want VAR over my whole life and when I was wronged!
Christmas
Gags
Hubby
enters room, with wifie in Santa Outfit and suspenders and stockings
all puffed out on the couch. "What on earth has happened?"
He asked. "Oh, I just got my present from Santa, baby"
chirped her little blonde voice." "Crivens" He
replied: " I thought that the toaster had broke!"
Give
a woman what she wants this Christmas: total power over the TV Remote
Control for two weeks.!
“Fancy pulling a Christmas
Cracker?” Asked Jimmo’s sister-in-law. “You bet!” He replied,
putting his arm around her. Jimmo spent the rest of the night in the
dog-house outside.
“I’m off for my Boxing Day jog’” piped Samantha. “Oh! I’ll join you,” responded her husband, Michael. Samantha was amazed. He continued, “I’ll drive alongside,” as he held up the car keys. Samantha slammed the door, as she jogged away.
CHRISTMAS GAG: 'Just dinner, a mince pie and a cup of tea for me on Christmas Day' Exclaimed Johnny. Samantha laughed: 'Oh yeah, after your ten pints and shorts in the pub at Christmas Lunch Time, wake up to a cold cup of tea and cold dinner on Boxing Day! You can't handle a Birthday Party, and we'll say nothing about 22nd and your night at the bar with the Druid Blondes!'
Halloween Gags
"Honey, you make a great witch," commented Reginald on his wife's Halloween costume." "Ha! you say that every night of the year!" Julie replied.
"Masha Doomdrop invited you to like her page THE DEAD & THE DOOMED TAKE 3" [Takes 1 & 2 had nobody actually dead, so a few re-"shoots" were required] …
"Your Halloween make-up looks amazing," said Barry to his blind date. A handbag cuffed him over the head: "It's my normal make-up!" Came the reply in the shriek of a Banshee.
Medical Gags
“I've turned into a hypochondriac. I keep finding new ways to be ill. I'm just mad about my new woman Doctor.”
"Doctor,
Doctor! I feel dizzy!" Prescription reads: "Keep off
roundabouts in children's playgrounds!"
"Do you ever have thoughts of harming yourself?" Asked The Doctor. The patient replied: "No, I gave up falling in love years ago."
“Somebody told me that I was too obsessive …then I got obsessive about what they said.”
WINTER SOLSTICE GAG: 'Oi! What the hell is that?' Said Leader of Band. 'A didgeridoo; what do you think it is!' replied the didgeridooist. 'I thought the heating had gone dodgy again, with radiator hum', chipped in the bassist. The Leader proclaimed to the diidgerdooist: 'You're out of the band for mentioning The Southern Hemisphere and its ways today of all days; it's not supposed to exist!' And so The Southern Hemisphere began tilting away from The Sun. 'See you around the clubs on 20th June 2024 then' retorted the didgeridooist